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Sister and Bestfriend

Assalamualaikum wbt
All praises to Allah SWT the Almighty and His Messenger.

Greetings.
It has been a month, again.

This time around, the post is about a very special person,
my Adik, the baby of the family.

She is going away to study at a place quite far away.
Being the baby of the family, she has not really been very far from the family,
until last year for her one year foundation study.
But, that was still quite near as it was still in our area.

This time, it is in another state.
The thought of Adik not being at home as usual,
came into me.

Next week must be boring
Must be quiet at home
I definitely felt lonely
My bestfriend is not with me
What she's doing now
Is she ok there
I hope she's doing ok
No one to laugh at my silly lame jokes
Is she coping well with the environment
I hope she stays strong
I hope she copes with being homesick
I hope...... I hope.......
And yeah, no one to argue with as usual
*sigh

I am actually feeling sad and teary.
A good sad though, 
that she is going away to study
and able to be more independent
and able to experience more things
and also able to explore more of herself.

I remembered she told me recently about me being away from the family.
It was the time when I went to a boarding school in the north, as young as 13 years old.
Of course, without doubt, I cried almost all the time during my first-two years.
But, you know what my sister told me?

She told me that she cried.
The day after she sent me away, she was laying on bed
and suddenly tears came down her cheeks.
She cried as she was feeling lonely.
She felt a little lonely that I was not there with her, as usual.
And you know what,
I felt the same now.

To Adik if you are reading,
I love you, always and forever bestfriend.
Study hard and smart.
Make sure you make baba mama and the family proud.
Don't layan your homesick feeling ok
I know you are a strong person.
All the best sayang <3

Do pray for the best for my sister.
And, thanks for reading.

Have a pleasant Hari Merdeka ke-56!


Comments

Yours said…
Xpa, kakak kena selalu dtg melawat lahhhh ;))
haz said…
Hahaa, well said Iman ;)

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